It is sunny and bright today December 20, 2006 for the farewell service in memory of our beloved friend, HeeJung Sohn. Seeing his body in a casket was too painful and sorrowful to bear.
Impermanent and fleeting is our life. The presiding pastor said when we face death, we have three emotion: fate, fear and vanity. Likewise it is really heart-rending saying farewell to our good friend Hee Jung, lying there unsaid. He is the first one passed away here in LA. He is the one who always cheer up our spirit and positive, so much is our lamentation indescribable. Many times I had a knot growing in my throat throughout the funeral service. How could we commiserate with his wife and children over the loss of their father! He took such a great part in our life indeed. Nothing could fill him in..... But we could put hope in his three young children who are sure gonna fulfill their dad's dream.
Almost all the guys living here gathered yesterday and today, about 30 of us. Jong Tae Choi, his best amigo, hurried here from Phoenix, Arizona. Young Shik Oh, Kyun Kang and Chang Geun SunWoo from San Francisco Area. We also have sensed that death is not far from us, approaching to us though unnoticeablly, maybe turning the corner not far away. We had lunch after service hosted Young Moo Kay, current chairman of our gangs. We found each other the appreciable change of an old man, wrinkles, gray hairs, baldness..... I pray that we should keep ourselves in fine fettle, not for ourselves but for the people around us: let's add to us encouragement, love, appreciation, help, care..... I found again the good reason why friends are so good.
I am asked to list up all the members attending this solemn occasion: Byung Chul Kim, Byung Chul Seo, HeeNam Kang, JongKu Kang, YoungMoo Kay, MuJin Jung, SukHee Hahn, HongUk Kim, YoungBong Song, YoungShik Oh. JongTai Choi, SangKyung Kim, ManSung Choi, TaeSung Jung, YounJong Noh, Hyun Park, JungKil Kwak, InKwan Hwang, InBong Jung, ChangGeun SunWoo, HyoYeon Lee, ByungShik Kim, InYoung Oh, Kyun Kang, HyungSung Park, HeeYoung Bae.
We all wish you a MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!! |